Friday, February 6, 2009

Breaking the Disposable Habit

While our new President works on getting the economy back in a good place, the rest of us can work on turning ourselves green. Or so the story goes. Going Green is the new mantra of the socially responsible and not nearly as easy as some would have us believe.

For example, this site gives us 10 disposable things we never have to buy again. Among those things are bottled water, disposable diapers, paper towels, wrapping paper and air filters. Great! But every non-disposable has its downside.

Cloth diapers are a mess! No other way to put it. And they stink. The wet-only diapers can go straight to the diaper pail. It is the wet-plus diapers that require rinsing out in the toilet, wringing out excess water and extreme hand washing afterwards.

Paper towels are another mess saver these helpful people would like us to give up. Cloth tea towels work just as well if not better than paper towels, that much is true. But what to do about zotting pre-cooked breakfast bacon? Cloth napkins soaked in bacon grease – yuck! I tried to get Michal Anne to join me in vegetarianism. No luck.

Then the bottled water thing. Absolutely right! We do need to get off bottled water. So how do we deal with the disaster preparedness thing? A gallon of water a day is recommended for every household member with enough stored water for 3 days. I personally think 7 days is better but no one asked so I don’t tell. Then the other little dirty secret is that bottled water has an expiration date! Yes, who knew water could go bad? So I buy bottled water for disaster preparedness and then have to drink it before it goes bad and then replace it with new bottled water. The problem is pretty unsolvable.

Permanent air filters – works for me. Non-paper wrapping paper – good idea - sometimes. But what about all the cities and states that do not recycle? Having just been to Spartanburg, South Carolina, I can testify that they do not recycle. We threw away too many recyclables for me to feel comfortable buying even one bottle of water.

Recycling is a good idea – a planet saving idea. It has a few glitches and a few holdouts. Maybe we could go to work on those. Anyone with any ideas let us know! And if you know of a city, state, town or county without recycling let us know and we will post their names on the Wall of Shame.

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Melanie Heatherly Rekers

This month has been one of “those” months. The kind you never want to live again. The kind that turns your world upside down in moments.

On the 29th of January my sister-in-law, Melanie, died. She was lovely in every way: a true Southern lady; a “Child of the South” my brother called her; a woman who cherished her family, her children and her friends. She was generous and kind and gave of what she had to anyone in need. Only sixteen days passed between the diagnosis of a brain tumor and her death.

She left three children and her husband, my brother, wondering how they would carry on with their lives; her mother, sister and brother equally lost in grief. She also left a network of friends: neighborhood women who raised their children while she raised hers; women who played together, volunteered together and solved problems together while their husbands worked and traveled for business; women who formed a close knit and solid group of support and care for each other. In Melanie’s last days those friends fed her family, helped where they could; crying and praying and struggling to understand. Like Melanie’s family, her friends clung together trying to understand the suddenness, the finality of the tragedy. Like her family, they were stunned by the speed at which death took her and struggled with her absence from their lives.

Melanie was one of those people who understood completely that relationships are all of life and everything in life. And she lived that truth out, giving herself generously to husband, children and friends. Melanie will be missed by everyone who came close to her.

Friday, January 9, 2009

A few facts and lots of questions.

Today I find myself with very few answers but lots of observations and a few questions. First the observations.

Polarizing talk. If we aren’t engaging in it we are hearing about someone else who is or we are listening to it.

Talk radio. A big part of our lives these days. If we aren’t listening to it we are hearing the latest outrageous remark or accusation from someone else.

Television personalities. Many of them seem to have only part of the story but they inflate that part into the whole story.

Newspaper reporters. Under pressure to get the big story and with no time to do the background digging necessary to put events in context for readers.

The rest of us. We hate being lied to. We hate being fooled by a plausible story. We want the truth. Sort of. That is, if it isn’t too painful or negative.

Then the questions:

What is truth? Is it what I think is true? Or what you think is true?

Does truth have anything to do with facts? What is a fact? Do I care about facts? Or would I rather stick to my ideology?

Is ideology truth?

Thursday, January 8, 2009

Comfort Food on a Rainy Day

Rain is predicted for today here in Northern California. A good day to make soup. Making my own soup is one of the easier ways to eat healthier and get a little comfort food. One of my favorite childhood memories is coming home on cold days and smelling split pea soup or bean soup simmering on the stove. Not to disparage anyone’s favorite store bought soup! It is just that I know what is in my soup. I control the amount of salt and no sugar, of course. And, as a vegetarian, I like being sure there is no meat broth hidden in the fine print. Here is a recipe for Split Pea Soup. This came from Vegetarian Cooking for Everyone by Deborah Madison. If you are not vegetarian you can always add some diced ham or even a ham bone to the soup at the beginning of the cooking cycle. The soup takes about 2 hours start to finish and most of that time you are doing other things while the soup cooks.

Split Pea Soup
1 ½ cups split green peas, sorted and rinsed
2 tablespoons olive oil
1 large onion, diced
2 carrots, diced
2 large garlic cloves, chopped
¼ cup chopped parsley (I use a handful of fresh parsley from my very small herb
garden)
1 tsp of dried marjoram
1 teaspoon of fresh or dried rosemary
1 teaspoon of paprika
Salt and freshly milled pepper
Aromatics (put them straight into the soup or in a small cheesecloth bag tied closed. You are going to discard this at the end of cooking and putting in a cheesecloth bag lets you pull them out all at once without hunting through the soup for them)
2 quarts vegetable stock (make your own or buy ready made. I frequently use Trader Joes vegetable broth.)
Mushroom soy sauce
1.2 cup of small croutons browned in olive oil

Cover the peas with water and set aside.

Heat the oil in a soup pot (I use a Dutch oven) over medium heat. Add the onions, carrots and sauté until the onion takes on some color, about 10 minutes. Add the garlic, parsley, herbs, paprika and plenty of pepper and cook for another few minutes. Drain the peas and add them to the pot along with the aromatics, 1 ½ tsp. of salt and the stock. Stir frequently at first to keep the peas from sinking to the bottom. Once the soup comes to a boil, lower the heat and simmer, partially covered, until the peas have completely broken down, 1 hour or more. Add extra water if the soup becomes too thick. Remove the aromatics.

Season to taste with soy sauce or extra salt as needed. Serve with the croutons and chopped parsley in each bowl.

My own modification to this recipe is to use an immersion blender to puree the soup slightly because I like my soup thicker and smooth.

Perfect for a day like today!

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Financial Gurus: Funny and Infuriating

Some of the latest headlines on the economic downturn have been both funny and infuriating. Funny because some financial gurus are arguing that not spending money will lengthen the economic downturn. Infuriating because the headlines imply that the consumer has some control over the length of this economic downturn.

Wait a minute! Let’s have a little common sense here. What do these very well paid (and employed) financial pundits think families can use for money besides money? What happens when the family breadwinners lose their jobs? Where is this money we are supposed to be spending going to come from?

Besides lacking common sense, these financial pundits don’t seem to be facing reality. The news from the New York financial markets is grim. The downturn is worldwide. Do they somehow believe we are going to be able to go back to Spend Heaven anytime soon? Do they really believe the American worker is going to continue to support their inflated salaries and bonuses. Dream on, gurus!

Clearly, American families are facing reality. Yes, the time to cut back on spending and start saving is here and has been for awhile. Yes, the time to start cooperative buying groups has arrived. More instructions on how to do that can be found here. Yes, the time to share our surplus with others has arrived. The world has changed and we must change with it. Ignoring the financial gurus might be the smartest thing anyone can do right now.

Monday, January 5, 2009

The Great American Think-off

Things are about to get warmer in Minnesota as the Great American Think-Off question gets all our wheels of thought working overtime. The New York Mills Regional Cultural Center has, for the 14th year, posed a philosophical question for the rest of us to think about. This year’s question: Is it ever wrong to do the right thing?

Last year's winner, Craig Allen of West Linn, Oregon, won by answering the question: "Does immigration threaten or strengthen the United States?" (Answer: threaten). In 2007 the question was "Which should you trust more, your head or your heart? Answer: your heart by Paul D. Allick of Burnsville, MN.

In 2006 the Think-off posed a question we all should have answered: Which is more valuable to society: freedom or safety? The winner successfully argued that freedom is more valuable. In 2004 the question was “Should same-sex marriages be prohibited?” The winner of that debate, Robert Lerose of Urbandale, NY, argued that marriage has changed over the centuries but has remained strong none the less. The exclusive commitment of two people to each other can only strengthen the institution.

Enter the competition by sending a 750 word essay to the judges. Click here for the rules and entry form and here to read about the history of the competition. Winning essays are also posted on the website.

A free way to get us all thinking about important questions.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

The lure of Wall Street bargain hunting

Although I never intended for this blog to be a series of “how to” tips, I find myself wanting to pass on some insights about money, investing and how people who live in the world of money think about investing. I am not a financial guru and my inclination is always to distrust advice if it is repeated over and over again and if the advice is likely to benefit the advice-giver in the short term and the advice-taker only in the long term.

One piece of advice that I hear over and over these days is some variation on “Time to bargain hunt on the stock market”. The second most frequent piece of advice is, “Hold on to your investments for the long haul.”

The first of these two popular slogans comes from a variety of sources, including multi-billionaire Warren Buffett. Some people seem to believe that if Warren Buffett thinks it is a good time to go bargain hunting on Wall Street then it must be a good time for all of us to get out there and buy stocks.

Unfortunately, following Buffett’s advice will more than likely lead many small investors to lose what little shirt they have left. Here’s why.

Buffett, the financial genius behind Berkshire Hathaway, the investment company whose shares are worth well over one hundred thousand dollars each, has the financial muscle to purchase preferred stock at a 15% discount. So, Warren Buffett is purchasing the class of stock that is paid off first after debt if the company goes bankrupt. Common stockholders are paid last if the company goes bankrupt. He is also paying less for that premium stock than you will pay for the same stock. Also remember that preferred stock pays a guaranteed dividend whereas the common stock dividend is variable and is not guaranteed. For this reason some people classify preferred stock as debt since the company is required to pay the yearly dividend. The company also has the option of “calling” or purchasing back preferred stock, usually at a premium.

Along with the usual advantages that accrue to preferred stock shareholders, companies can also create special classes of stock with special privileges, such as 10 votes per share as opposed to the common stock voting privilege of one vote per share. My guess is that Buffett is frequently the beneficiary of these special classes of stock given the financial muscle represented by Berkshire Hathaway.

So what about the second piece of advice: Hold on for the long haul? That may depend on what stocks you own. We are in a highly volatile time of enormous change. Read, learn all you can about the investment climate and make your decisions based on solid research. Do not hold on simply because your financial advisor says that is the thing to do. Holding on for the long term may be good advice for one stock and not for another. No one has the experience to know exactly how things are going to change through this financial cycle. Research. Read. Here is one site but there are many others. Look here and here.