Why and How I Thrived with No Cell Phone for (6) Months

Why and How I Thrived with No Cell Phone for (6) Months

“Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.” – Andre Gide

For (6) months, I gave up my cell phone. It was just something I felt I had to do. When I decided to give up my phone, I began documenting my transition and how the world around me would react to my new lifestyle.

The first 2-3 weeks were very hard. I couldn’t check social media, business emails, or have mobile record of who was trying to reach me throughout the day. Even though each day was a little stressful, I began feeling liberated. After about a month, I had adopted the lifestyle and loved every bit of it. I did what I felt and became a better person (stronger leader / business man) because of it. My decisions and daily choices started to align themselves accurately with what I envisioned for myself. My energy was undeniably at a higher frequency and contagious.

My goal was to become a more effective leader, entrepreneur, and human being to those around me. I was also tired of the lack of authenticity people were displaying to me and around me. I felt that if I got rid of my mobile phone, it would help me see things clearer and slow down my speed so I can enjoy my walk through this beautiful experience we call life.

Here are my TOP 12 things I recognized and experienced when I got rid of my mobile phone.

Rahfeal Gordon’s (12) Observations with No Mobile Phone

  1. Arrived to all my meetings and events earlier than the attendees.
  2. Recognized and seized more opportunities due to not being distracted by all the activities that my phone created (i.e. emails, social media apps, notifications, games).
  3. Dealt with current issues and feelings while driving, walking, and in waiting areas. I could not just pick up my phone to waste the time away.
  4. Slept easier, stressed less, and reflected with gratitude as soon as I woke (rather than just picked up my phone to check messages and social media sites).
  5. My imagination was exercised more and I was more in tuned with my thoughts.
  6. Due to not being easily accessible, friends, family members, and business associates began scheduling more meet ups (I HEARD more I LOVE YOU comments because it couldn’t be sent as a text to me).
  7. The conversations were more in depth, rich, and authentic because I wasn’t sharing much online. When you have no phone you see the world a little differently and many people within my circle were very intrigued.
  8. More productive with my time and valued it more than I did with the cell. I began noticing that I was perfecting my time management skills.
  9. I was more “in the moment” than those around me. While everyone was at dinner on their phones or taking pictures of their food/surrounding, I was observing the ambiance. I was paying attention to how those around me interacted and how I was feeling at the moment.
  10. I purchased a house phone and gave it only to family members and friends of the family.
  11. I notice that I only remembered the phone numbers of the people that called me the most and/or who I called most often.
  12. My communications as a leader became more exceptional to my team.

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Rahfeal Gordon

Senior Director of Marketing & Global Branding at Madison + Park Agency | Strategic Leadership Advisor for Senior Executives and Entrepreneurs

9y

Ruth Tick: I learned a great deal when I made the decision to get rid of my cell. There was such a value in not knowing what everyone else was doing. There was this sense of personal privacy that no one could infiltrate. I had complete control. As each day passed, I grew to understand myself and human behavior better. We were probably very productive without a cell phone (and probably more creative) back in those year you stated too. Hmmm.. something we all can sit back and ponder on. Thank you for reading and leaving a comment on my post Ruth. I truly appreciate it.

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Rahfeal Gordon

Senior Director of Marketing & Global Branding at Madison + Park Agency | Strategic Leadership Advisor for Senior Executives and Entrepreneurs

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Robin Ellen Lucas Thank you Robin! I appreciate you reading my post.

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I love this

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Rahfeal Gordon

Senior Director of Marketing & Global Branding at Madison + Park Agency | Strategic Leadership Advisor for Senior Executives and Entrepreneurs

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Patricia A Blair Hi Pat. Thank you :-)

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